Whether you are going through a divorce or are newly divorced, you want to feel good about yourself, and not only heal your emotional inner-self, but also project that from your personal clothing style. Your wardrobe is an extension of who you are. It should make you feel empowered and ready to conquer the world. I asked style expert, Brenda Gonzalez, the Founder of Styled By B, for tips on how to transform your closet into a true reflection of your signature style.
1. Declutter and Detox
First things first, let’s declutter. Get rid of anything that doesn’t make you feel alive when you wear it. If it doesn’t fit, if it’s worn out, or if you haven’t worn it in the past year, it’s time to say goodbye. Also, review items that are years old that may not speak to who you’ve evolved into today. Make space for pieces that truly represent you and your goals.
2. Identify Your Style
Think about what makes you feel confident and happy. Are you more fashion-forward, classic, edgy, conservative, or a mix of styles? Your closet should be a mirror of your personality and lifestyle. Look for inspiration in fashion magazines, social media, and/or Pinterest.
3. Invest in Quality Basics
Quality over quantity, always! Invest in timeless basics that you can mix and match. A perfect pair of jeans, a versatile blazer, and a little black dress are essentials that can be dressed up or down.
4. Add Statement Pieces
Sprinkle in some statement pieces that scream “you.” Whether it’s a bold print, a funky accessory, or a statement jacket, these items will give your wardrobe that unique flair.
5. Organize by Category and Color
An organized closet makes dressing up so much easier. Arrange your clothes by category (tops, pants, dresses) and then by color. This not only looks visually appealing but also helps you see what you have at a glance.
6. Personal Touches
Finally, add some personal touches. Whether it’s a vintage scarf from your travels, a custom-made piece, or something that has sentimental value, these items add a story to your style.
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Brenda Gonzalez is a personal stylist for 6 years, who helps men and women with reviewing and styling the pieces they have in their closet and as a personal shopper. Brenda has been a lead creative director for NY Fashion Week. Her #1 Bestselling book, Styled By Independence: A Woman's Journey to Self-Discovery Through Adversity, chronicles her transition from a 15-year corporate career to full-time fashion entrepreneurship, embracing post-divorce and post-pandemic changes, navigating motherhood, and redefining success. If you need a little more help in connecting with your signature style, reach out to Brenda at www.styledbyb.net/work-with-me or email support@styledbyb.net.
